Life is what is!!
One of my close relative had to take up a lot of responsibility in young age.When I asked her, how it felt to face so many challenges so early in life she replied with a smile ''Nailaz ko kya ilaz"(some problems have no solutions in life). I really loved this. Atleast she had accepted the reality without fuss and that has made shouldering the responsibility a little easier for her.In fact her experience seems to have made her strong and better equipped to face life.
In another case ,a friend badly wanted to be a doctor.She tried her best to clear through her medical entrance. But she could not make it.She took up engineering and excelled in academics. As a professor, she is playing a key role in shaping future of hundreds. Her dream of serving the society is getting fulfilled in a different way. She is now pursuing her PH.D and I am sure in near future she will be addressed as a doctor soon.
Many times in life we plan and believe that everything will be as per plan only. We start pursuing our work our dreams so passionately. But someone has rightly said"Man proposes,God disposes". Life is full of complexities and no factor in life is constant. Many factors have an important role to shape our future.
I was happy that after a long patience and hardwork, I was doing what I was loving. Finally I was feeling excited about something. I was deciding on taking some new responsibility to increase the ambit of my work when my kid got ill. I was disturbed by her pain and thought where I failed to take due care .She recovered in a few days but during those days I realised that even though I was prepared my little one needed me more than anything else in this world. It was not just about my interest or passion but her comfort and happiness that was important at that moment.Friends difficult times are actual testing times. I feel such moments help us to set our priorities right.
I feel life is always beautiful.We need to have faith in circle of life.When things don't go according to our wish,something much better is awaiting us or something more bad is averted.
Many years back we had booked a flat which had a wonderful hill view. But by the time we were to get the possession ,we had to sell it off as we relocated to a new city. For some time I felt bad and repented the decision of selling and missing such a picturesque view. But later after 2-3 years we happened to passby the property. We saw a rehabilitation scheme had came up just behind our property and blocked all view.That moment was an eye opener.If we had kept the flat it would have been difficult to sell it off .Also the view was lost for lifetime.All things really happen in life for a purpose.
One of my colleague's new car, parked properly on side of road was rammed by a bus. But he thanked God that this bad event happened when no one was in the car. With proper insurance in place he got the car repaired and renewed in few days. I could not agree more with him.
I feel that when things are not as per our wish instead of cribbing we need to see the best possible we can do in given situation. We need to believe that nothing can go wrong . In cycle called life, everything happening is taking us to a point which is always right .
Someone has beautifully said,
'Zindgi hasin hai ise pyar karo, Hai raat to subha ka intezar karo, Wo pal b aayega jiska intzar hai, Rab pe bharosa aur waqt pe aitbar rako"
